Foster caring is a difficult job because it requires taking care of a lot of children. Foster parents are usually on their own unlike real parents that are in pair, foster parents are those single person parents. While I was searching for more topics about spanking, I came across this article about a foster parent spanking her child by a wooden spoon which later caused bruises on the child's lower body and threatened the child if she ever tells anyone about what she did. Later on the child spoke to her classmates and her teacher overheard the conversation which then called the police and confronted the foster mother. The foster parent now faces 100 days in prison and 2 years of probation. Regarding spanking, it occurred to me that foster parents have no rights to spank their child because they are not their parents by blood nor by law. They are just simply being paid to take care of children until such time when they get adopted.
An article concerning about a foster parent saying she had spanked her children but later, knew that it was not a good idea because in time she realized that there is a boundary between spanking and abuse which she failed to understand for many years of taking care of children. Soon after she began taking parenting classes and she never again laid a finger on her children.
Being a foster parent takes a lot of courage and compassion because you agreed on the terms given to you by the government and children are looking up to you to become a role model and for them to see that there are people who want to be their parent.
According to Foster Parents Bill of Rights and Responsibilities, "foster parents shall recognize that the purpose of discipline is to teach and direct the behavior of the child, and ensure that is administered in a humane and sensitive manner. Foster parents shall use disciplinary methods which are consistent with children's division policy." meaning that in a state where spanking is banned/illegal, foster parents has no rights to use corporal punishment as a means to discipline their foster children.
So in conclusion, there is always another way of applying discipline to a child without the use of corporal punishment specially, when you are just a foster parent because it is by rule that you are in no state of being to hurt that child no matter the circumstances. This should all be a lesson for everyone, abuse is different from spanking that's why we should all know how to limit our actions.